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Author: Blank_Wall Subject: sexual incompatibility? Does it exist?
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posted on 05-31-2008 at 09:01 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
sexual incompatibility? Does it exist?

Just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this and how. Have a new parner who is rough, and I like a lighter, slower more sensual touch.........I like to play.......he goes immediatly to oral.....I like to mix oral in sometimes but there are so many other things that I like to do........how do I get this across to him? I don't enjoy bleeding and taking ibuprofen the next day. When I talked to him about it he said something about being a bull in a china shop. I really need some insight( never thought I'd have a problem like this)!
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posted on 07-04-2008 at 12:19 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
it's nonsense

'Just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this and how. Have a new parner who is rough, and I like a lighter, slower more sensual touch.........I like to play.......he goes immediatly to oral.....I like to mix oral in sometimes but there are so many other things that I like to do........how do I get this across to him? I don't enjoy bleeding and taking ibuprofen the next day. When I talked to him about it he said something about being a bull in a china shop. I really need some insight( never thought I'd have a problem like this)!'

If he doesn't have any regard for your preferences, then he's just being
self-centered and selfish - and probably not good relationship material.
There is no such thing as "sexual incompatibility" - it's utter nonsense.
You should have a talk with the guy, and tell him that things need to change,
or there is serious doubt that your relationship will last for much longer.


HTH.
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