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Author: jorgemendez Subject: Etiquette
Penilopa
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posted on 04-20-2004 at 08:09 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Etiquette

Many of us want to be successful as swingers. It doesn't matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style we swing. If you adapt these suggestions to your own situation you will become a welcome partner.
1. BE COURTEOUS 2. BE FRIENDLY 3. RESPOND TO ALL INVITATIONS 4. GO PREPARED 5. TAKE CARE OF CLEANLINESS 6. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS 7.DON'T BE PUSHY 8.ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU 9.DRINK SOCIALLY 10. PRACTICE SAFER SEX 11.CALL TO SAY THANKS 12.BE GOOD HOSTS 13.REPLY TO AN ADS 14.ENJOY YOURSELF
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posted on 05-18-2004 at 09:37 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Rules

I realize that there's never any real "rules" to the lifestyle, but I picked this up on another forum, and wanted to see what everyone thought of these "guidelines" so to speak. Do you agree with them? Have anymore you would add? Take off? Are there any that you and/or your spouse/SO go by as a creed that maybe others do not that isn't on this list?

13 Rules For Swingers

1. Always show respect for the personal attitudes, feelings, & hang-ups of others & maintain a continuing desire to better understand them.

2. Exude human emotion & warmth, but understand the type of emotional involvement which is properly reserved for a spouse.

3. Never attempt to divide a home.

4. Help newcomers locate themselves within a relaxed social environment wherein a satisfying personal life may be achieved.

5. Always keep dates unless you give ample notice of changing circumstances.

6. Always keep the first meeting on a no strings attached basis, but be prepared to swing if it is mutually agreeable or to give an honest answer to your intended partner if something doesnt click.

7. If married, continue at every juncture to discuss openly your problems & views with your spouse.

8. Never, under any circumstances, exert pressure on a partner to swing.

9. Never disparage anothers religious convictions.

10. Restrict discussions of swinging in public places to known swingers & interested persons seeking information.

11. Protect the anonymity of others by refraining from unauthorized name dropping.

12. Always maintain the highest of standards in personal cleanliness and appearance.

13. Do not engage in any unlawful activity that would bring discredit upon swingers as a group.

-- From A Swinger Creed
The Book of Sex Lists
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posted on 10-12-2020 at 05:36 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Foreign women swingers?

I am wondering. Do foreign women swing? Is swinging a western activity only?

Always I have liked the idea of having a swinger wife. I likely would prefer a Ukraine women for swinging with. Also I like other women. Colombia woman for swinging would be good. I however like a beauty woman with blond hair of Russia or Ukraine for wife and swing with Mexican Colombian or Peru women.

Is the rules for swinging same as western when in European countries? Please respond with experiences you had.
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